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7 Questions You Have to Ask Before Jumping on the Plane to Meet Her

By: Ovi Dogar You have met your true love online. Is she for
real?

The entire world is desperate to find the real
love. As the popular songs sounds, 'All You Need
is Love'. It is true: to love and to be loved is
probably the most important thing in our life.
But what to do if you are not sure - is it Love
with a capital "L" or just another temporary
flirt?

Doubting if the person you are with is the right
one for you is a normal thing especially if you
have meet that person through online dating sites
and you never have meet her face to face.

But there are some things to consider, especially
if she is miles away from you that can help you
make up your mind if that person is worth to
spend your money and time with.

1. For how long do you known her?

If you just met her - forget about that plane
ticket for the moment. :)

If there are less than 4-6 months since you two
have met, your love can be just an illusion. Wait
until you know each other better and talk online
or on the phone as much as you can to get some
trust and comfort in the relationship.

2. What do you talk about?

I am sure that you like to stick to sweet love
talk but how she reacts if you are asking her
about her family, her friends? Does she gives you
details or didn't want you to know too much about
them? You can find out more about her if you know
how her friends and family are. You can even talk
with her friends online and try to know them this
way. But if she don't tell you too much about
people around her, this fact have to make you
suspicious about this lady. Is she embarrassed to
talk about you in front of her friends or does
she have something to hide to you?

3. Do you find her attractive?

Does love depends on sex? I’m sure you already
know the answer. Yes it does. How can be love be
complete without the mornings you are waking up
in your lover's arms after a hot passionate night?

So if you talk about HER to YOUR friends all the
time and you are already dreaming about her and
you didn't even touched her is a good point, this
relationship can have a future, a good one :)

4. Do you think, honestly, that she likes you?

You can ask for an outside opinion to your best
friend or test her. Yes I know that is unfair but
everything is fair in love and war. Doesn't it?
So ask her to do some things for you. But what
she can do if she is miles away from you, you'll
ask. A lot of things:

- read a book than talk about that book to see
how carefully she read it;

- make some photo especially for you... in
special places;

- buy a CD with some music you like; etc

When you are asking her these things you have to
be careful not to ask something too expensive, or
something what she couldn't do even she want to.
But be specific about the things you are asking
and ask it in a polite way. If you see that she
is trying as hard as she can to do what you are
asking her then she is yours :)

It means that she appreciates you and is curios
about what you like, and she is interested in you.

5. If she would win a large sum of money, what
would she do with it?

Just ask her. You have all the chances to be
surprised by the answers. :)

It could be: buy new designer clothes, buying
everything for herself and/or her purse dog,
probably give the money to charity, and quit her
job mid-shift. You can discover a lot about a
person from the answers to this question. But if
somewhere in the answer is your name involved you
can smile - she is thinking about you like you
are there in here daily life.

6. Do you have a lot in common?

Maybe she is hot and you like her, but a long
term relationship involve more than sex. You know
that, don’t you?

So what hobbies do you have in common, where do
you both enjoy going in vacations or weekends?
What passions you have those are interesting for
her too?

These are some important things to consider when
you are thinking to spend a little fortune on a
plane ticket.

7. Is she the best you can get?

Don't compromise! We compromise in love because
we are so desperate to be loved. But compromising
does not lead to feeling loved.

Finding real love has nothing to do with chance,
looks, location, or timing. Finding your perfect
love-mate has to do with your thinking, your
qualities, your affirmations, your spirituality,
and your commitment to being with a woman who can
love you as equally as you will love her.

So if you considered this few issues and you
still are eager to meet her face to face, buy
that ticket, it could change your life.