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Blow Him a Kiss With Your Eyes

By: Sarah Love We have all seen the flirty woman blow a kiss at a man to spark his attraction. However - there is a very overlooked secret to body language that sparks attraction and sends out the right kind of message in a much more subtle, but powerful way. The method? Simply - eye contact.

Holding someone's gaze for longer than they hold yours sends out a VERY powerful signal of attraction and intent. It's not a staring contest - it's a fine-tuned way of giving him a great signal he may not even CONCIOUSLY recognize.

When you see a man you are attracted to, when he looks back at you, do not break eye contact. That is totally counterintuitive for most women - it seems very uncomfortable NOT to look away. But if you want to communicate the RIGHT things to him in order to spark attraction, hold his gaze.

If you find it difficult - you are not alone! Most women, including myself, have found it difficult to do at first. The thing is - different is GOOD in attraction. If something catches your curiosity - it is more than likely that the thing is DIFFERENT than the things around it. See where I am going with this?

As with anything, though practice makes perfect. Go somewhere public or take a walk down the street. Practice looking every single guy you see right in the eye, until he looks the other way. Keep practicing until you get COMFORTABLE with this - and that may take a while!

Keep in mind - you are not trying to "stare him down" or overpower him. So if you are having a conversation, DO look away occasionally. Just show him that you are comfortable, he has your attention, and you are a strong and intelligent woman.

If the dialogue continues and you've made some good eye contact, try then breaking the eye contact by glancing away and possibly chatting with someone else or letting yourself be diverted by something else. Then, look back at him after a short while. This "start and stop" interplay is very exhilarating for men, and gives them time to watch you and want your attention again.

Once you have gone on to a first date, or maybe going for a cup of coffee or something, change things around a bit and DON'T look directly at him all that much. Instead, act chummy, joke around and have fun, not acting too serious. This will get him thinking about what he can do to get your attention, giving him more of the "chase" that men love.

This type of play will keep him attracted and will keep him thinking about what he can do to keep your attention focused on him. It will also keep him guessing - which makes life a lot more interesting for the man, and ultimately, for you!