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Dating Tips for Men: Time Management - Part 2

By: Vin DiCarlo. It is taught to young men that their physical urges is crude and silly, and that women are just doing a favor to sleep with them.

"Doofus dad" syndrome is another societal factor that I'm going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This brings to an opinion that women are "better," and that their time is more important than yours.

If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.

But here's the thing - you won't be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.

When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.

After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I'm only giving a smaller amounts of my time.

Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.

This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."

Ask you know, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already have.

I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.

No games, just be real with her - don't spend more time that you want.

Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.

Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I'll have to take up in another newsletter.

It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.

You should think that women aren't property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.

It doesn't mean that you can "keep" the women if you invest all your time with her.

Another point that I want to give - when you start being honest about how much time you're going to give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That's ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.

You see, it usually comes from the social norm if you are following your true ways.

If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.

That's why I set out on a journey to discover and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.

And there's no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are able to do that for yourself.

Vin

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