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Song Lyrics to Save the Doomed "Nice Guy

By: Chris Benjamin I'm on my way to the supermarket the other day listening to the radio like I always do. I'm singing along to the lyrics of Everything You Want by vertical Horizon when suddenly I have an epiphany! Do you know the song I'm talking about? It goes," he is everything you want, he is everything you need but he means nothing to you and you don't know why"?

This is brilliant. These guys are in the know when it comes to the dating world. This song describes what nice guys all over the country go through every day. Most of the dateless guys are not nose picking psychos - they are nice every day guys. Unfortunately they can't get dates because of the very fact that they are NICE.

Let me lay it out for you in one simple sentence. Nice guys do not get the girls because they are too nice, which means the women do not feel attraction for them. When they look at these men they see a friend and nothing more.

It amazes me how the difficult life of a nice guy was laid out in the Vertical Horizon song. It's true that the nice guy is everything that most women dream of. These men complement women buy them things take them out to dinner and treat them like royalty. But in the end he ends up meaning nothing to the woman.

The attractive woman is going to end up dating some muscle-bound no neck jock whose greatest goal in life is to graduate college in the next 10 years and treats her like a shoe. What is she see in him? Attraction.

Now, I am not by any means saying that you should be mean to women or treat them like dirt. What I am saying is that you need to create attraction with a woman from the very start in order to get the girl. You need to get her attention and hold her attention by fanning that spark between you and not letting it die.

So what does a single man do to accomplish this? There are any number of things you can do, but one of my personal favorites is using a little humor combined with roguish behavior (otherwise known as Cocky Comedy). In other words - you need to bust her balls and keep her on her toes at all times. She needs to NOT know what you might do next in order to keep her from being able to tell if her charms are working on you.

Nice guys are the first to let women know they are attracted to them by giving them compliments, buying them drinks and generally treating her like a queen. But what this does is it kills the attraction because it kills the game for a woman. The dumb jock is not going to let her know how much he wants her or how attracted he is. He is going to make her be the one to vie for his attention. That, my friend, is what will get you the girl.

Keep these words in mind if you're that unlucky nice guy. Keep the lyrics in mind and remember to quit being the man she thinks she wants and start being the man you know she wants. To read more about why bad boys get the girl and nice guys get to go home click below.