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The Best Way To Win Your Ex Back

By: Claire Tourney There is an avalanche of advice available for the broken hearted lover who seriously wants to try and win their ex back. And a lot of it is well intentioned, excellent advice.

But there is one common thread that runs through almost every effective, tip, method or strategy. It's the concept of self love. The basic thought is this, you can't expect someone else to like you, much less be attracted to you if you do not like yourself.

Now I know low self esteem and lack of self love can be almost endemic. And there are of course myriad reasons for this that could fill up a whole encyclopedia.

But no matter how hard it is to come to a place of really liking yourself, it's the best thing you can work on if you are serious about wanting to get your ex back. Many of the common relationship break up mistakes that people make are because of desperation and neediness, two classic examples of the lack of a healthy self esteem and sense of self.

Now that does not mean there aren't some other things you might want to change to make yourself more attractive to your ex, but these should be things you would like to change anyway, to be a better you, not just to try and influence someone else's perception of you.

After all, you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life, whether you are in a relationship or not. So the most important part of your strategy right now if you want to get your ex back is to not only look at where the relationship went wrong, but take a look at whether you are really OK enough with yourself to be in a healthy relationship in the first place.

If you start working on self acceptance and getting a healthy sense of love and respect for yourself not only will you become a confident, happier person, but it will make you much more attractive to your ex girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband also. Then it will be time to put some SMARTER strategies in to play to help you get back together with your lost love.

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