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The Recipe to Attract Success in a Work at Home Business in Direct Sales.

By: Nick A. James Everything in our life, spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, home and job, we have attracted it.

There is no in-between, no neutral state, all of our habits and actions either attract people or just the opposite. The sad part is we usually don't have control of our actions.

Want to be shunned by those around you, try being a total jerk.
People will avoid you like the plague.

Consider for a moment what things attract what we want, losing weight perhaps, driving a new car?
Bottom line: certain habits that lead to a hard body and nice hair attract others, not taking a bath does just the opposite.

The formula for network marketing or home based business success is also the same, we attract it by our habit or we do things that without realizing it attract failure. Most people without realizing it do the latter.

Here's what you want to avoid in order to maximize work at home business success and also in this article we reveal how to condition your mind and habits to attract success.

First it is critical to pay close attention to how our mind functions at the subconscious level. We need to be made aware it's like a little kid, it can't tell when we're serious or not, and if we talk negative it will simply interpret that we want negative and bad things to happen to us.

So when we focus on why I can't get out of debt, or why my job sucks, or I can't afford this or I wish my wife didn't do that. What we are doing is programming our subconscious mind that my job sucks or reasons why we can't get out of debt. Our subconscious mind is stupid, it doesn't know that we don't like debt or a crappy job, etc.

So how do we train our mind to only attract what we want?

It all starts with energy and we must understand that to create success in any activity we undertake, it all starts with the energy of a single simple thought.

The energy of our thoughts controls what we attract and the success we attract determines our destiny.

First everyday look for reasons to be grateful - say out loud what you have to be grateful about. The process of being thankful focuses your thoughts in an upbeat and the proper manner for beginning each day. I recommend you carry an object in your pocket that reminds you to be grateful.

The next step is to identify what you want and ask for it. It is written in the Bible, ask and you shall receive.

Most people have trouble asking for what they want because they think they are being selfish.

Due to people's misconception about asking, I believe it is extremely important that you understand how wealth creation helps others or you're liable to be unsuccessful.

Most people think the world is like a finite pie, if they get more, everyone else gets less so they think I don't want to be selfish, they couldn't be more wrong.

Many people without actually thinking about it just think of most wealthy people as being selfish. Before we ask for something we are either selfish or unselfish in our heart. Actually we can never only create wealth and riches for only ourselves. This process also creates more wealth for many others.

Consider each of these scenarios, in one scenario you are wealthy, the other you are poor. In which of these can you most help others.

The World often attributes those who seek wealth as being selfish, because they believe to become wealthy requires taking from those who have less. When in reality becoming wealthy is because we provide something of value to many others who have less.

There have always been those who want to control others, give their definition of selfishness. This can become a problem when these people get in power and have control of others lives.

Unless you've been living in a cave all your life you're certainly aware that taxing people is how governments fund themselves. However, because most people in government have never had their own successful business. Until you've created wealth yourself you can easily misunderstand how it's created. Government in effect takes from one people through taxing them and gives to others. Basically this is a shell game where nothing new is created. However, you must realize that a tax on income is a tax on production. So I ask the question is more production good or bad in other words would you like more food or less food, more houses or less houses. Which of these scenarios benefits the most people? So why would you want to impose higher taxes on higher production? Why would you want to discourage more being produced when we've just shown how more production helps more people?

Okay we're back from our slight diversion let's now focus on what asking means to success.

What is asking? It is more than simply desiring or dreaming about something. It's a definite process. It starts with detailing exactly what you want. This could consist of a new car, a second income, a new home, or more time to spend with loved ones. However, the key is to be very precise, I would suggest you even go on the internet and find pictures and details (if possible) about what you desire and print them out. Generalities like a lot of money or a new home or a new car simply don't send strong enough of a picture to our subconscious mind in order for it to help us obtain it. Our subconscious mind will however, respond to precise descriptions like we can put on paper or on a picture.

Okay so we've established that the proper method to go about asking for what we desire is to be very definitive. In fact if I were to coach you I would have you practicing visualizing exactly what you desire down to the very last detail. If it's a new house, what's the color of brick, how many fireplaces, how many bathrooms, what's your dream kitchen, what does it look like? The more details you furnish the more likely you will get what you desire.

Next the world always answers us when we ask. It may not be the answer we're looking for but we always get an answer. The key to getting the answer we are looking for is believing and imaging in our mind that we already have what we had asked for.

There is like an unwritten law that the world will only give us what we have asked for if first we are prepared to receive it. For example we could ask for a fancy sports car at 12 years of age, but we're not prepared at that age to receive it so most likely we wouldn't get it. Training therefore prepares us to receive our goal. However, we also must expect to achieve our goal. We often place artificial limits on ourselves by thinking sabotaging thoughts, like, "I'd love to, but that home is simply too expensive."ï¿½ Saying or thinking this convinced the subconscious mind this is true and as long as a person continues to think this way they will never become wealthy.

In a wealthy country those that are poor are basically that way because they either lack knowledge or they simply lack a poor work ethic. However, before you condemn me for picking on poor people, let me say my goal is to help those people who are poor now to become more prosperous. That is the goal of my business and this article. I can't help people with a poor work ethic but I can help educate people with knowledge so they can become more prosperous.

I believe that we who know how to attract success have an obligation to carry through with success or we will never be happy. Success also comes with an obligation to help those less fortunate, and helping people gives you a certain satisfaction you can't achieve any other way. The Bible even commands us not to forsake or overlook the poor. However, helping doesn't just mean giving charity. I believe is also means enlightening people poor in knowledge with the principals of attracting success so they can rise up on their own.

The ultimate key to getting success to come your way is, to control our thinking. Usually, when you are unaware of it, your thinking goes toward negativity. Have you never caught yourself thinking, "Why can't I lose weight?"ï¿½ Would not it be better to say, "I am not committing myself to losing weight but if I were committed to weight loss I would look great and be fit."ï¿½ Don't say, "That is not affordable."ï¿½ Positive thinking programs us to think, I would like to have that, and I must arrange my finances so it is affordable to me. Or, "I would like to have that, but I think I will look around a bit further until something better makes an appearance." Instead of thinking, "I would like that," think; "I think I will buy that."ï¿½

Also there are words, phrases and thoughts that you want to constantly avoid. Phrases like "I want that" or "I need that"ï¿½. This may seem like a small thing but those phrases to the subconscious mind are like negative affirmations of being in need or being in want. Something better would be "I would like to have that" or "when I get that new house I'll have you over for tea."ï¿½

Mental programming of positive thinking attracts success. Of high importance is a learned value system of wisdom and principals, of love and caring for others, that should guide our thoughts like the Biblical 10 Commandments. Who can forget the many evil men, that were guided by their own self-interests, regardless of how they hurt others, they thought they were right. They were confident and certainly attracted worldly success, but without a love for fellow humanity they reigned extreme misery on mankind (men like Hitler, Stalin, Mao and many more).

Thus I believe it is very important that what we do, we do with an attitude of love toward our fellow man.

Let me ask you a question, have you ever seen a totally confident person in all their actions who was not successful?

So if you want to attract success like a magnet, first learn to control your thoughts.

Article Source: http://www.lifeweightloss.com

Nick A. James offers home based business reviews, vitamins products and a Health Blog for Goji Juice. Contact him at: www.healthfulberry.com/goji-juice-resources.html His many years of nutrition and marketing expertise puts him in a valuable role to work with individuals searching for a profitable work at home Goji Health Drink Business.

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